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Posts tagged "Child Custody Modification"

Parental Access Schedules Are Not Fixed In Stone

In arriving at a parental access schedule the concept begins with the goal of protecting and nurturing the children.  The schedule should be fair to both parents and healthy for the child, who is not getting a divorce.  As the adage goes: future relationships must persist despite the exacerbation of the divorce. Cutting edge mental health science teaches us that the child's ability to accommodate competing loyalties  - - parents who do not like each other but who both love the child - - does not fall into place until the child is in her or his early 20s.   With that in mind, divorced and separated parents in New York divorces should be steadfast in their committment to minimizing the impact of their breakup on their children. This often requires creativity for both parents to maintain meaningful relationships with the children in different households.

Enforcing visitation time in a child custody order

After a New York judge has issued a child custody order, the parents involved are expected to follow the order. Failure to comply with a child custody order could result in a parent having to pay fines and compensation to the other parent. In some cases, the child custody order could end up being modified as a result of one parent's noncompliance with the order.

Communication and consistency may help post-divorce co-parenting

While New York parents who have divorced may struggle to remain civil with their ex-spouses, it is in the best interests of their children if they commit to working together in parenting, particularly in joint custody arrangements. Working as an effective team in making decisions about their children requires parents to communicate calmly and cooperatively and learn to compromise regarding minor issues.